Every healthy man gets excited several times faster than a woman. For most, a quick look at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent sexual intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically in order to process and accept it with their brain. If your partner loves touch and turns it on the most, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased tactile need will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating techniques with hands and other parts of the body!
It is a misconception that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and do not mind prolonging the pleasure they receive in order to relax physically and mentally. And there are no less erogenous points on a strong torso than those beautiful girls. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge about sensitive areas, so let's enrich our luggage with seductive techniques together. Today we will learn how to excite a man with your hands and learn how to push all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them properly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influences. Their caresses help to increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only general male erogenous zones, but individual ones for each individual man, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man simply goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she is reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
It should not be thought that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men enjoy having women's hands run through their hair. Such tenderness as touching the cheek, eyebrow and chin with the back of your hand is no less pleasant. Stroke his hair with your spread fingers so that the hair falls between them and run the ends over his face. You can complete the action with gentle kisses in the earlobe. What does not annoy me the most is not the touch of the lips itself, but the warm breath that is perceived very sharply.
Neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for provoking passion with the hands. The most sensitive area is the strip of skin from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow it up with kisses. You can use tongue caressing if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth down to the interscapular area is the runway. This is where the hot trips start, signaling that the lady will soon go lower and there will be a "bounty". . . Lightly go over it with the edge of your palm or fingers. Your body will most likely be covered in goosebumps. Repeat.
Back
On the back, in order to properly arouse a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
You can caress these "accumulators" of lust with your fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men are very excited by the touch of female nipples on the back.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in the intimate zone, you can use a completely blatant provocation - stroke the sacral back (coccyx region) with the cat. Just keep in mind that in a few seconds the guy will not be able to control his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
Otherwise, the immobilized blindfolded partner concentrates more on tactile stimuli, and therefore experiences more acute sensations. Pay attention to this idea!
Torso
On the front of the body, the most sensual points that immediately respond to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, which leads to the peak of male size. Keep in mind that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you shouldn't pull them with the same intensity. There are individuals who will find such incentives uncomfortable, therefore, dear tigresses and panthers, we purr and listen to the wishes of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl runs her hands over her chest and stomach while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to the other. Hands, on the contrary, have several rather sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, i. e. the inner fold of the hand, is a place with increased sensitivity to light touches. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move from this place to the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many guys react to her touch by associating it with stroking the penis.
- The inside of the palm and the tips of the fingers are also very sensitive to the gentle touch of hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Did you still think that men's legs are not involved in arousal and that they only need them for support during intercourse? You are very wrong! The feet, it turns out, are a real erogenous crater! Squeezing the fingers, gently caressing the heels and steps made the owner more than happy.
The hollow below the knee is another erogenous zone for arousing a man with his hands. Caressing, light touches, pressure turn guys on wildly.
The junction of the trunk and thighs is full of nerve endings, which allows this area of the male body to be classified as highly erogenous. Caressing your hipbone with your fingers can make a guy shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men do not let a woman into this area of the sights because they are uncomfortable or afraid of creating an image of a person focused on their own kind. And nature made her very erogenous! Caressing the anus from the outside and inside excites every man. The main thing is to relax. Gently caressing the anal ring with your fingertips puts the guy in the right mood. If you want, you can put your fingers in his ass and feel the most sensitive points there with maximum response to passionate appeals. We already wrote how to do it in the article on how to persuade your husband to have sex with a strap-on - read it.
Cock and scrotum
And the main course is, of course, masculinity! Stroking the testicles with hands (pulling, squeezing, fingers), masturbating the penis itself and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can lead to gushing ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress the penis with your hands to arouse a guy
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that jerking up and down and grinding the foreskin is quite enough for enchanting sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle the penis, no less carefully than the female vagina.
Correct grip
There are several basic ways to grab a penis.
- The traditional option is the fist grip, in which the movements can be translational "up-down", or they can involve rotation in a spiral.
- We press the head on the top with our thumb, and the others are below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (the OK sign) from the thumb and forefinger, connect them and release the fist (see the picture below),
- Lubricating your hands first will easily arouse a man. The hand in the reverse position (you should see the back of the hand and its thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if crushing the penis.
He caresses with his fingers and hands
In order to improve the partner's feelings, a woman must take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any technique of gripping the penis, stimulating the man with warm hands, you can quickly achieve orgasm. But you should not overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about this for men's health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman pats the shaft with her fingers. It is better to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with sweeping movements.
A man gets a special feeling when his penis is caressed by two ladies at the same time. We place dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move slowly and smoothly up and down, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, rub him differently: you do not need to go to the base, on the contrary, perform manipulations by squeezing towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone - the head of the penis - is caressed, and due to the fact that the caresses are done indirectly, there is no danger of erasing it. Men with such a structure come great from such techniques!
It is important not to forget to caress the testicles. The effect of simple massage movements will not only provide excitement, but also bring health: you can avoid problems with potency in adulthood by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them a little to the side or down (a little! this is not a wrist expander! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in a circular motion and casually touch the testicles.
Unusual stroking with a nail plate, which should be pulled along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add piquancy and improve the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl should rub her lips against her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
The combination of the suggested techniques with high-quality smoking will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in a few minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly excite a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine his body inch by inch and watch his reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We've told you how to prepare a man for sex and get him as excited as possible, but you want to create a signature feature to get him completely and irrevocably hooked. Let's try to outwit potential rivals and find that anchor to put it on as a drug!
- Always soften your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Skating turns men on.
- By pressing, caressing, lightly pinching the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. This greatly inflames passions.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and gradually work your way down. There is no need to go directly to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothes or a towel spread out after showering to create even more excitement. Put your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under the towel, massage your private parts and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can keep a commanding tone and tell him what to do next. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combine caresses with each other. Let an exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of voluptuousness should wash over him!
- Use the chest. You can caress the penis with two palms and rest your head on the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main tip is to always use the tricky Thai technique. When you get to the main point, choose another very sensitive area and massage it at the same time. It can be member-anus, member-lower back, member-butt, etc. You yourself will notice what a man reacts to more. When he is finished, move to another secondary zone and caress unobtrusively for another 20-30 seconds, as if you are calming your partner down. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - it will become your trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you don't have to wait for his hints or requests. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex are not inclined to give the initiative in bed to their partner, counting on her playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male excitement.
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